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Growing our community services, prioritizing sexual assault prevention

By Melissa Koepp

(January 26, 2010) SafePlace is excited to share the news of our recent restructure. “Since we completed our new shelter in 2007, SafePlace has identified Community Services as our focused priority. The changes we have put in place are laying the groundwork to increase our community presence,” says Mary Pontarolo, Executive Director. To accomplish this goal, we have made some staffing changes in the past few months, particularly in our Community Services area. “We reprioritized some funding, allowing us to add hours to sexual assault prevention outreach,” adds Mary.

Changes to our community services department include hiring a new, part-time sexual assault advocate, a 10-hour a week Spanish-speaking advocate, and increasing our education position by 5 hours a week.

Amory is the new Sexual Assault Services Advocate. We are excited that Amory will focus on strengthening and stabilizing our Sexual Assault Response and Prevention (SARP) program. She also plans to expand our sexual assault services and focus on increasing prevention work in our community.

In order to support our growing Spanish-speaking Program, we have added Carolina to our staff as a 10-hour a week Spanish-speaking advocate. Carolina will work with Alejandro on the weekly Spanish-speaking support group, as well as mentor our growing group of Spanish-speaking volunteers, and provide bilingual advocacy to our clients.

In an effort to work with different community groups and populations on developing prevention strategies, we have increased the hours of Sandi, our Education and Training Specialist. This will give her more time to focus on prevention outreach, a critical component to realizing our mission of a violence-free community.

SafePlace staff are very excited about these changes, and the growth potential they build for strengthening our services to survivors of sexual and domestic violence.

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Stifled voices

By Josie Solseng

(January 26, 2010) When Arianna (not her real name) sings in her rich, full voice, she’s strong and powerful. Her voice seems to come from her soul and I am mesmerized by her gifts. The lyrics of the songs she’s written cover a wide range of emotions, from sorrowful to silly. She sings them to me without a note of music in front of her. Arianna’s song about domestic violence makes people cry, and she hopes to record it so advocate Alejandro can play it on his weekly KAOS radio show.

This talented woman is living at the SafePlace shelter as I write this, planning her next move to escape a determined, resourceful abuser/stalker. Arianna is wary of disclosing too many details of her story for fear that he may read this article and figure out her location. She has filed protection orders against this man in two states that are 2,000 miles apart. He has the resources to drive an expensive car and hire private detectives to track her down.

At our shelter, Arianna has found the temporary safety she needs to prepare for relocating. Her goal is to move to another area and start her life over again, one last time. She checks in with advocate Jenn three mornings a week to keep her housing search on track. She uses the shelter’s internet service to facilitate her search. Every week, Arianna attends the shelter’s support group and the house dynamic group. Her favorite activity is Cindy’s self defense class every Monday evening. She loves it because it’s not just about physical defense, but also includes mental and emotional defense strategies that help her feel more powerful. The compassionate, structured support of SafePlace advocates and full access to shelter resources is vital to Arianna’s survival.

The contrast between her incredible talent and her desperate circumstances is staggering. Her beauty and power are imprisoned by fear, and she is only one of the twelve women currently living at our shelter. I wonder what talents these other women have kept hidden to keep themselves and their children safe. I imagine how much richer our world would be if they were free to express those gifts. Domestic violence really does affect us all.

 

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